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[wetherly40]

My wife kissed a co-worker 3 times, so she claims. According to her each kiss happened on separate occasions. I found out about all this from another woman that works at the same place my wife works at. This woman told me on the phone to watch out that my wife was having an affair with a co-worker, then she hung up on me. I was in shock! So, I interrogated my wife about this and she claims she wasn't having an affair. Anyway, I kept asking her over and over again and finally she admitted to kissing this guy on 3 different occasions. My wife normally worked day shift, however she said she had to work 3rd shift over time (she claims as mandatory overtime.) This happened to be the overtime she was working with this man she was kissing. Anyway, she claims that the guy was after her all the time and being overly nice to her etc,.. and that one day he came over to her to show and ask her something and grabbed her and kissed her on the forehead and she said she lifted her head and frenched kissed him .. just a quick one and pushed him away, because she said she wanted nothing to do with it. Then, they worked again together at night and she said he joked with her saying her perfume smelled good and joking she said his colonge smelled good too... He did the same thing, took her by surprise so, she kissed him quickly again according to her and again pushed him away. The last time she kissed him she said she was outside having a cigarette and he happened to go outside to have a cigarette too and asked her to go for a walk. So while they were walking he turned into her and kissed her again. She then told him no that she didn't want anything to do with him, however she said he would just ignore her and tell her that she can kiss him anytime etc... She even called him up at work according to her to tell him to leave her alone that she didn't want to be with him but he would just ignore whatever she would say. She told me this guy was stalking her and that she wanted nothing to do with him. Although she said she liked the compliments she just didn't want the other stuff.

Anyways, I have a hard time believing that anyone could mistakenly kiss someone 3 times how about all of you?

By the way, this scumbag doesn't work where my wife is anymore for one... because I beat the living crap out of him after I told him not to talk to her anymore one day I went to work and there she was talking to this scumbag so I grabbed him and beat this crap out of him... after that he got fired and my wife stayed at her work.. She claims he was fired due to sexual harassment, that she wasn't the only women he was doing this with.. he's done it with multiple women.. I do know that this is true, I just don't know why my wife liked his attention and supposedly mistakenly kissed him 3 times!! How do you do that???
Comments please!

[cormick]

why did you whoop the guys butt why didn't you whoop your wife's butt?Accidentally kissing with tongue sure sure!I make that mistake all the time!

[deveon]

i don't think someone would just grab and kissed. i think u should leave her beacause once their a cheater
always a cheater i'm not tryin to be mean i'm just a blunt person.

[balfour]

i don't think someone would just grab and kissed. i think u should leave her beacause once their a cheater
always a cheater i'm not tryin to be mean i'm just a blunt person.

I cant even read all of it, this is BS. shes cheating of you, how can you not see that. you need to leave that slut

[macdoughall90]

Well.... she cheated on you..
ONCE a cheater...always a cheater..so just move on, or she will do it again..

im married and id never cheat, but if he cheated on me, i wouldnt think twice but to leave his dumb ***

[kenny]

TMI.....please K.I.S.S.

[radcliff]

shes cheating on you leave her alone

[home]

I'm going to be honest with you, I think your wife is the scumbag.

I love my husband and cannot even fathom french kissing some dude by accident. That's one of the lamest things I've ever heard. You seem like a really sweet guy and a caring husband. You deserve a wife who respects you enough not to do anything like that. If you don't have children, perhaps it's time to consider a clean break.

[forba]

OUCH!!! that sux.....nobody mistakenly kisses someone else especially with the toungue....if she really didnt want anything to do with this guy she wouldnt have done it to begin with and she would have immediately told you about it...that was her first mistake "not telling you about it", the 2nd was letting someone else tell you...that's where i stop believing her, she prob was having an affair with the guy and only admitted to what she knew someone else saw, which is the only thing that could be proven to you via "friend/co-worker"....the big question is where do you go from here? If she is telling the truth then you have to realize that she is likely to stray because of lack of commitment. and then you guys need some serious counseling.

If she is lying to you then you have to decide whether or not you are willing to put up with it. And remember the only reason she confessed is because you interrogated her about it....she wasn't going to tell at all, had you not found out!

in any case, you need to establish a common ground of trust and counseling.

If it were me (and this is just me) I would leave her and move on, there is no way i would ever stay with someone who lied or didn't tell me about that kind of a situation.....I would be more inclined to believe her friend that told you she was having an affair!

But most people are forgiving and want there relationship to work, so you'll have to get the truth out of her one way or the other....But i wouldn't believe a word she says ever again, mainly because she hid it from you to begin with. BUT THAT'S JUST ME! im 25 and going through my own divorce (after 9 years and 2 kids together we were married for 6) for reason that have nothing to do with cheating!

[laughlin]

Yeah, your wife is acting like a whore. Sorry.
These are not"accidents":

"and she said she lifted her head and frenched kissed him .. just a quick one and pushed him away, because she said she wanted nothing to do with it."
*****************She wanted nothing to do with it? but she french kissed him? That doesnt even make sense. Worse excuse ever.

"she said he joked with her saying her perfume smelled good and joking she said his colonge smelled good too... He did the same thing, took her by surprise so, she kissed him quickly again"
****************yeah, there was nothing here that surprised her either since she was FLIRTING with him before it happened.

"he happened to go outside to have a cigarette too and asked her to go for a walk. So while they were walking he turned into her and kissed her again."
******************** So, after she cheated with kissing him TWICE, she decides to go for a walk alone together?? Are you kidding me with this stuff??? Are you THIS gullible? No offense but, she is making a fool out of you.